Randy & Random: My Night, Ahem , Two Hours in an NYC Love Hotel
This room existed for one purpose. There was nothing romantic or even welcoming about it. Still, the pure functionality of the space was strangely and unabashedly erotic.
The State of Our Union: Cranky and Selfish
My husband and I have been married for two years and together for ten. What’s our secret? We allow each other to be cranky, selfish douche bags.
Dolly Parton’s Open Marriage
It would make sense then, that she would also define the terms of her romantic interactions. Add that to the reasons that I love her.
What Lips My Lips Have Kissed, and Other Non-Remembrances
What the f*ck WAS up with my love life?! It was haunting to first read Millay’s Sonnet 42 in 11th grade, before I’d had any sexual encounters of enduring note, let alone a host of young men crying for me, with me, in me, at midnight. Haunting because, despite my lack of love experience, disquieted [...]
Ask Jess #18: My Ego Booster Kissed Me – Can I Still Keep Him as an Ego Booster?
Dear Jess, I recently moved to a new city and have been re-building my gaggle here. So far, so good! Until last night, when one of the guys in my new gaggle kissed me. I had been thinking of him as an Ego Booster, and I didn’t really want to kiss him back. But in [...]
- Ask Jess (3)
- Calling Out The Media (39)
- Celeb Buzz (28)
- Cheating and or Cheating (6)
- Film Buff (22)
- Gaggle Homework (1)
- Guest Blog (70)
- Let's Talk About Sex (33)
- Listen Up! (9)
- Love Letters (1)
- Millennial Take On Love (163)
- Odes (3)
- On Modern Women (98)
- Outtakes from Our %^&# Love Lives (108)
- Post-Dating Glossary (18)
- Quotes & Thoughts (47)
- Techno-Romance (89)
- The Gaggle (77)
- The Mind of Men (17)
- Uncategorized (2)
- What The Book?! (19)
- WTF Do You Think? (67)
- WTF Is Up With These Links?! (19)
- WTF?! Does Porn (2)
- WTF?! Online Dating Series (10)
- WTF?! Press (15)
- WTF?! Tour (11)
- WTF?! Wall of Shame (11)
- WTF?! Worldview (10)
The Truth About Online Dating: Infographic
On a first date, men are three times more likely than women to lie about their relationship status, age and real last name.
Don’t Do This
This is said in a way that expresses that this divorce is, as divorces go, hard, but does not seem concerned or even phased that a divorce is taking place. He continues…
Failure is Not an Option
Click to find out what today’s found image is…and what it might mean for your love life…
Sign Up for V-Day Cooking Classes!
Join chef and author (and our pal!) Spencer Walker of COOK TO BANG for a Valentine’s Day-inspired cooking class. All you can cook, and drink, prix fixe.











