Dolly Parton’s Open Marriage
It would make sense then, that she would also define the terms of her romantic interactions. Add that to the reasons that I love her.
What Lips My Lips Have Kissed, and Other Non-Remembrances
What the f*ck WAS up with my love life?! It was haunting to first read Millay’s Sonnet 42 in 11th grade, before I’d had any sexual encounters of enduring note, let alone a host of young men crying for me, with me, in me, at midnight. Haunting because, despite my lack of love experience, disquieted [...]
How to Fall in Love With Your Best Friend (in 10 Years or Less!)
When I was 13 years old, I fell in love. It was the summer of 1997, and I was just days from turning 14. My family was on vacation in Maine, at a campsite with a bunch of random families, and a tall, handsome boy approached me and my (annoying) little brother and asked if [...]
The Top 10 Emotions in My Post-Dating Love Life
A fairy tale it is not. In truth, it is pretty f*cked up. And by it, I mean my love life. Your love life. Our (collective) love lives in the post-dating world. It’s been nine months since I’ve last written about the Hot Sex Prospects, OK Cupid Paramours, Guys Who Just Blew Me Off, and [...]
Ask Jess #18: My Ego Booster Kissed Me – Can I Still Keep Him as an Ego Booster?
Dear Jess, I recently moved to a new city and have been re-building my gaggle here. So far, so good! Until last night, when one of the guys in my new gaggle kissed me. I had been thinking of him as an Ego Booster, and I didn’t really want to kiss him back. But in [...]
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BLOGOLOGUES Go On A Date!
Blogologues – the long running new media theater series – is taking on DATING (whatever that is!) for their very last show at UNDER St. Marx. As they say: This [...]
Come Taste YOUR Tasty Valentine
Sounding scrumptious? Our pal, Spencer Walker of COOK TO BANG, is hosting cooking classes to lust for just in time for Valentine’s Day. Aphrodisiacs? Fun, cool people cooking? Sounds like [...]
America Today: 51% Single & Living Alone
“The consequences of widespread solo living are profound but unappreciated, shaping our families and communities, our relationships, and ourselves — and not in the ways you might imagine.”
Dolly Parton’s Open Marriage
It would make sense then, that she would also define the terms of her romantic interactions. Add that to the reasons that I love her.











