Ask Jess #18: My Ego Booster Kissed Me – Can I Still Keep Him as an Ego Booster?
Dear Jess, I recently moved to a new city and have been re-building my gaggle here. So far, so good! Until last night, when one of the guys in my new gaggle kissed me. I had been thinking of him as an Ego Booster, and I didn’t really want to kiss him back. But in [...]
Ask Jess #1! How Should I Deal With Him Suddenly Avoiding Me?
Dear Jess, I’ve been hanging out with this guy – a mutual friend introduced us because we work in the same industry and I was looking to switch jobs, so she thought that he might be able to help me out. We immediately hit it off, and after a few coffees and happy hours, we [...]
Ask Jess #4! Should I Feel Guilty About Talking To Another Guy?

Dear Jess, I shared a cigarette with a guy at work yesterday, and now I feel really guilty about it. I’ve been in a relationship for over a year and I love my boyfriend. Am I an asshole? Why didn’t I see this coming? The other guy was obviously trying to get close to me…I [...]
An Ode to Manly Men (and Independent Women)
“Yes, you are independent and you don’t need anyone to take out the trash for you or hang your pictures or run to the Home Depot and pick up the supplies you need to fix your sink. But I lie to you not: if you put your finger in your mouth and act like you [...]
Ask Jess #6: How Do I Get Over Him?

Oh man, is it Heartbreak Week here at WTF?! or what? First, The Bachelorette sobbed on the beach. Then everyone cried over yesterday’s guest blog. And now one of our readers is finding it impossible to get over her ex. Sometimes amidst the fun of the post-dating world, it can be easy to forget that [...]
Ask Jess #8! Should I Be More Critical Of Girls?

Dear Jess, My last three girlfriends all complained that I didn’t criticize them enough. I know…what?! I wasn’t sure what to make of that, but they all ended up dumping me because they felt they “weren’t being fair to me” – as though I was somehow putting up with them against my better judgment. The [...]
