Ask Jess #20: How Can I Meet (the Right) Men?
Dear(est Understanding) Jess. What does a girl have to do to meet men these days?! Or at least, the right men. I am starting to loooooose hope. All of it. The belief I once had in love, and all its power, has been replaced by bitterness after an endless string of one-night stands and stupid [...]
Ask Jess: Valentine’s Day Edition!
Question: How should I handle being single on Valentine’s Day? You know, without feeling lonely or desperate, or convincing myself that I’m destined to become a bitter, self-loathing spinster? Answer: Read my advice in a new article – 5 Tips for Being Happily Single on Valentine’s Day – that went up today as an Editor’s Pick [...]
Fantasy Football Gaggle: Super Bowl XLVI Edition
The Super Bowl! Both a great American pastime, and a perfect excuse for a group-non-date (who hasn’t met a cute guy at a Super Bowl party?). We here at WTF?! are based in New York, and so of course we were thrilled to see the Giants pull out a nail-biting win over the Patriots last [...]
Ask Jess #18: My Ego Booster Kissed Me – Can I Still Keep Him as an Ego Booster?
Dear Jess, I recently moved to a new city and have been re-building my gaggle here. So far, so good! Until last night, when one of the guys in my new gaggle kissed me. I had been thinking of him as an Ego Booster, and I didn’t really want to kiss him back. But in [...]
Ask Jess #1! How Should I Deal With Him Suddenly Avoiding Me?
Dear Jess, I’ve been hanging out with this guy – a mutual friend introduced us because we work in the same industry and I was looking to switch jobs, so she thought that he might be able to help me out. We immediately hit it off, and after a few coffees and happy hours, we [...]
Ask Jess #4! Should I Feel Guilty About Talking To Another Guy?

Dear Jess, I shared a cigarette with a guy at work yesterday, and now I feel really guilty about it. I’ve been in a relationship for over a year and I love my boyfriend. Am I an asshole? Why didn’t I see this coming? The other guy was obviously trying to get close to me…I [...]

