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Ohhhhhh, we’ve all been there.  You know two guys from the same setting – your workplace, your dorm, your soccer team, your favorite local band, etc.  You really like one, but you have fun with the other one too, and while you’re trying to figure out what to do about the first one, you have one too many gin & tonics and start flirting with the other one…

Soon, word gets around and you’re forced to do damage control.  People are wondering – do you like the first guy?  Or the second guy?  Or do you just like getting attention?  Are you no longer girlfriend material?  Were you ever girlfriend material?  What even happened that night?!  And how can you fix it?

The solution is here!  And don’t worry, it doesn’t involve cutting off contact with any of the guys in your gaggle or giving up alcohol (maybe for just a few minutes, though).  What does it involve?  Honesty and guts.  I know, novel concepts.  But they really do work sometimes.

So here you go – Ask Jess #5! Can I Redeem Myself After Hooking Up With His Friend?

Topics: The Gaggle
Jul 19, 2010
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