
Non-Date Snapshot #1! The Networking-Non-Date
You breathlessly run into Starbucks after work, wondering how it is that you manage to arrive exactly 10 minutes late to everything in your life. Smoothing out your “business casual” attire and breathing in the smell of espresso, you see Matt, an up-and-coming web designer, playing with his iPhone on a comfy chair in the [...]

Introducing…!!!!!! The Non-Date
During the next few days, we’ll be introducing an interactive feature on this site called “Date / Non-Date / Not-A-Date?!” It’ll give us all a chance to share our confusing and ambiguous “Was I just on a date or not?” stories and (since it’s always easier to be objective about other people’s love lives) to [...]

Hannah (and Jess!) Break It Down in the Wall Street Journal
Author and fellow navigator of the modern romantic landscape Hannah Seligson wrote an AWESOME piece in today’s Wall Street Journal. In the article, she delves into the confusing realities of the post-dating world (with some eye-opening statistics) and explains why popular books of the past and present have it all wrong for our generation. A.M.E.N. [...]

Ping! + Indignation = Jess’s Letter to The New York Times
UPDATE FROM JESS: The New York Times published my letter! I guess someone in their editorial office was pissed as well. The following convo took place over Ping. (<3 shout out to Merideth for making sure we saw this NY Times article!) Becky: Woah, have u seen this?

John Mayer – Beacon of Romantic Optimism??
Thanks to a recent Huffington Post slideshow, “The 9 Douchiest Things John Mayer Has Ever Said” (only nine?), I was reminded of this Mayer quote: “Life is like a box of crayons. Most people are the 8-color boxes, but what you’re really looking for are the 64-color boxes with the sharpeners on the back. I [...]

“Do you think I’m a woman or a man?”
Are YOU a woman or a man? Clearly, Becky and I spend a lot of time emailing about this! Becky: Do you think I make people rethink their beliefs about women? Do you think I’m a woman or a man?

Ask Jess #7! How Can I Get Him To Slow Things Down Without Losing Him?
Dear Jess, For the past month, I’ve been talking to, hooking up with and going on dates and/or non-dates with a guy who I went to school with. He’s really funny and sweet, and I love talking to him and being around him. My issue: I just got out of a two-and-a-half-year relationship where I [...]

