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Non-Dates

Non-Date Snapshot #1! The Networking-Non-Date

Posted by  Jess

You breathlessly run into Starbucks after work, wondering how it is that you manage to arrive exactly 10 minutes late to everything in your life. Smoothing out your “business casual” attire and breathing in the smell of espresso, you see Matt, an up-and-coming web designer, playing with his iPhone on a comfy chair in the [...]

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Topics: Non-Dates, Post-Dating Glossary
Feb 26, 2010
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  • Ask Jess #16: Who Is He In My Gaggle?!
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  • Ask Jess #9! Did I Ruin It By Sleeping With Him Too Quickly?
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  • The Bachelorette: The Second Ever Post-Dating Recap (And The Third. My Bad)
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  • Non-Dates

    Introducing…!!!!!! The Non-Date

    Posted by  Jess

    During the next few days, we’ll be introducing an interactive feature on this site called “Date / Non-Date / Not-A-Date?!” It’ll give us all a chance to share our confusing and ambiguous “Was I just on a date or not?” stories and (since it’s always easier to be objective about other people’s love lives) to [...]

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    Topics: Non-Dates, Post-Dating Glossary
    Feb 26, 2010
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  • Jess’s Post-Dating Tip Of The Day: Grab A Ball
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  • Non-Date Snapshot #4! The Surprise-Non-Date
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  • This Week in Jess’s Post-Dating Tips
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  • Calling Out The Media

    Hannah (and Jess!) Break It Down in the Wall Street Journal

    Posted by  Jess

    Author and fellow navigator of the modern romantic landscape Hannah Seligson wrote an AWESOME piece in today’s Wall Street Journal. In the article, she delves into the confusing realities of the post-dating world (with some eye-opening statistics) and explains why popular books of the past and present have it all wrong for our generation. A.M.E.N. [...]

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    Topics: Calling Out The Media, Millennial Take On Love, WTF?! Press
    Feb 26, 2010
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  • Ask Jess #4! Should I Feel Guilty About Talking To Another Guy?
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  • Screw You, Becky. I’m Not (Usually) An SJP – PART 1
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  • Sex And The (Sketchy, Potentially Intoxicated Old Man Who Trolls For Young Girls In His Car Around The) City
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  • Romantic Terrorism vs. Romantic Optimism
    Posted by Jess
  • Calling Out The Media

    Ping! + Indignation = Jess’s Letter to The New York Times

    Posted by  Jess

    UPDATE FROM JESS: The New York Times published my letter! I guess someone in their editorial office was pissed as well. The following convo took place over Ping. (<3 shout out to Merideth for making sure we saw this NY Times article!) Becky: Woah, have u seen this?

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    Topics: Calling Out The Media
    Feb 24, 2010
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  • Where Is The Emotionally Unavailable Guy?
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  • Ask Jess #18: My Ego Booster Kissed Me – Can I Still Keep Him as an Ego Booster?
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  • Celeb Buzz

    John Mayer – Beacon of Romantic Optimism??

    Posted by  Jess

    Thanks to a recent Huffington Post slideshow, “The 9 Douchiest Things John Mayer Has Ever Said” (only nine?), I was reminded of this Mayer quote: “Life is like a box of crayons. Most people are the 8-color boxes, but what you’re really looking for are the 64-color boxes with the sharpeners on the back. I [...]

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    Topics: Celeb Buzz
    Feb 20, 2010
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  • Let’s Find This Man a Soulmate!
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  • So…Who’s Not In Your Gaggle? (HINT: Your iPad)
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  • Ask Jess #15: What Does His Facebook Wall Post Meeeeean?!
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  • Jess Sounds Off

    “Do you think I’m a woman or a man?”

    Posted by  Jess

    Are YOU a woman or a man? Clearly, Becky and I spend a lot of time emailing about this! Becky: Do you think I make people rethink their beliefs about women? Do you think I’m a woman or a man?

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    Topics: Millennial Take On Love, Outtakes from Our %^&# Love Lives
    Feb 19, 2010
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  • Ask Jess

    Ask Jess #7! How Can I Get Him To Slow Things Down Without Losing Him?

    Posted by  Jess

    Dear Jess, For the past month, I’ve been talking to, hooking up with and going on dates and/or non-dates with a guy who I went to school with. He’s really funny and sweet, and I love talking to him and being around him. My issue: I just got out of a two-and-a-half-year relationship where I [...]

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    Topics: On Modern Women
    Jan 11, 2010
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