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Question: How should I handle being single on Valentine’s Day? You know, without feeling lonely or desperate, or convincing myself that I’m destined to become a bitter, self-loathing spinster? Answer: Read my advice in a new article – 5 Tips for Being Happily Single on Valentine’s Day – that went up today as an Editor’s Pick [...]




Follow me on Twitter @jessmassa to read my daily Post-Dating Tips in real time! As the WTF?! tour closed out this week (!), I dissected the welcoming social scene in Minneapolis, drove for a million hours towards Indianapolis, and finally made it home to NYC in time to d.a.n.c.e. at Becky’s birthday party. Find hints [...]




Follow me on Twitter @jessmassa to read my daily Post-Dating Tips in real time! Throughout the classrooms of Madison and the sports bars of Green Bay, the post-dating vibe is alive and well in the seemingly-traditional state of Wisconsin. This week’s tips were inspired by some of my WTF?! tour interviews in America’s Dairyland…




Follow me on Twitter @jessmassa to read my daily Post-Dating Tips in real time! Don’t be surprised if you catch a whiff of Graeter’s ice cream (Cincinnati!) or Hot Doug’s (Chicago!) in this week’s tips…when in Rome…or at least, when roaming the Midwest on the WTF?! tour…




Follow me on Twitter @jessmassa to read my daily Post-Dating Tips in real time! Most of this week’s tips were inspired by my WTF?! tour trip to Portland, Oregon. Not sure what that might entail? Watch the above  (and check out the tips below)…




Follow me on Twitter @jessmassa to read my daily Post-Dating Tips in real time! This week’s tips come to you from the WTF?! tour – and more specifically, via the coffeeshops of Seattle…




Follow me on Twitter @jessmassa to read my daily Post-Dating Tips in real time! Let’s recap (with photos!):




Follow me on Twitter @jessmassa to read my daily Post-Dating Tips in real time! Now, let’s begin HERE.




To quote myself! Because yeah, I’m a jerk like that. Happy Friday, guys. Start Living Your Love Life This Weekend




You’ve been working too hard. Your life has become too serious. Your interactions with guys, of late, have been too fraught and heavy and intense. What do you need? And how can you find it? Easy. Check out today’s tip HERE.




How many hours of my life have been spent reading other people’s text message exchanges? (Or more often, having them recited to me by the texter/textee, bedtime story-style?) You don’t want to know. Luckily, I find these exchanges endlessly fascinating. If techno-romance is a science, then these e-convos are our case studies! And as I [...]




Feeling dissatisfied with the guys in your gaggle? Finding yourself annoyed at their shortcomings – and then annoyed at yourself for being annoyed at their shortcomings? Looking for some perspective on how you can be enjoying your love life more…right now? Check out today’s tip HERE.



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