Non-Dates

definitions of the non-dates


Dear(est Understanding) Jess. What does a girl have to do to meet men these days?! Or at least, the right men. I am starting to loooooose hope. All of it. The belief I once had in love, and all its power, has been replaced by bitterness after an endless string of one-night stands and stupid [...]




Is walking through Prospect Park something friends do? Or something dates do? Does the fact that it’s winter mean it’s more romantic, or less?




Join chef and author (and our pal!) Spencer Walker of COOK TO BANG for a Valentine’s Day-inspired cooking class. All you can cook, and drink, prix fixe.




I went to a paintball birthday party. It was awesome, and it got me thinking.




Dear Readers, Jess & Becky here! We’re excited to let you know that WTF?! will be re-launching THIS WEEK. Stay tuned for stories, thoughts, wisdom, advice, commiseration and celebration of YOUR f*cked up love life! It may be a new year, but the post-dating world seems to be as it ever was… xo J&B WTF [...]




Follow me on Twitter @jessmassa to read my daily Post-Dating Tips in real time! As the WTF?! tour closed out this week (!), I dissected the welcoming social scene in Minneapolis, drove for a million hours towards Indianapolis, and finally made it home to NYC in time to d.a.n.c.e. at Becky’s birthday party. Find hints [...]




Follow me on Twitter @jessmassa to read my daily Post-Dating Tips in real time! Throughout the classrooms of Madison and the sports bars of Green Bay, the post-dating vibe is alive and well in the seemingly-traditional state of Wisconsin. This week’s tips were inspired by some of my WTF?! tour interviews in America’s Dairyland…




If you don’t “love” your Boyfriend Prospect or “like” your Guy Who Just Blew You Off…then how DO you feel about them?! HowAboutWe offers seven other options for describing your emotions!




Follow me on Twitter @jessmassa to read my daily Post-Dating Tips in real time! Don’t be surprised if you catch a whiff of Graeter’s ice cream (Cincinnati!) or Hot Doug’s (Chicago!) in this week’s tips…when in Rome…or at least, when roaming the Midwest on the WTF?! tour…




Follow me on Twitter @jessmassa to read my daily Post-Dating Tips in real time! This week’s tips come to you from the WTF?! tour – and more specifically, via the coffeeshops of Seattle…




Follow me on Twitter @jessmassa to read my daily Post-Dating Tips in real time! Let’s recap (with photos!):




To quote myself! Because yeah, I’m a jerk like that. Happy Friday, guys. Start Living Your Love Life This Weekend



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