“You always hear people say, ‘I never thought this would be the person I would end up with,’ but I don’t think you ever really know.” – Kate Hudson



So what IS up with my sex life? It depends on who you ask. A recent study at Indiana University found that men and women, old and young, from 18-96 years old, have vastly differing opinions on what constitutes “sex” – and there’s no seeming rhyme or reason to it.



As Jess points out below, despite being eminently independent and capable myself, I have had this ‘Manly Men’ thing figured out since a very young age. (So why my love life is now so f*cked up, I’m not sure.) Therefore, having read Jess’s Ode to Manly Men, I would like to offer my own personal [...]



Over and over again, the one thing we keep on hearing is that people are confused!  He gave me all the signals that he was interested, and then he didn’t kiss me.  I really wanted to kiss her, but she didn’t give me a sign that she wanted me to.  I thought we were friends, [...]



True Love

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I love this because, it’s Monday morning and who doesn’t want a little love with their coffee?



As a big fan of the movie Scent of a Woman, I’ve always believed that smells really affect emotions. Case in point:  My WTF?! of the Weekend! Forget Axe… give me a man who smells like ice cream any day of the week.  Lieutenant Colonel Frank Slade, you should told me earlier that vanilla is also [...]



This week in NYC Happenings, the theatrically-inclined among you can invite one of your gaggle guys or girls on a non-date to the Samuel French Off Off Broadway Short Play Festival. Tomorrow night features SMART PHONE by Nick Jones, who is that force of perverse nature behind such cult indie theater as Jollyship the Whizbang, Straight [...]



The worst Valentine’s Day gift I’ve ever given a guy is Tropical Starbursts. I was not a child. It was definitely inappropriate. Thankfully, there are a lot of non-Hallmarky valentines out there that aren’t Starbursts. Here are some of my favorites



How About We tipped us off to this brand new invention: a virtual french kissing machine – so that you can “french kiss” your faraway loved one in real time…OR record a french kiss with him/her and then re-play it for yourself whenever you want. OR purchase a pre-recorded “kiss” from your favorite Celebrity Hot [...]



Dear Readers, Jess & Becky here! We’re excited to let you know that WTF?! will be re-launching THIS WEEK. Stay tuned for stories, thoughts, wisdom, advice, commiseration and celebration of YOUR f*cked up love life! It may be a new year, but the post-dating world seems to be as it ever was… xo J&B WTF [...]



Hoodlums across Brooklyn must have gotten wind that Last Week Was Porn Week at WTF?! and wanted to spur some added thought on my part, because this morning on the subway my iPad was stolen from me and is gone forever. I’d previously pointed out on our site that the iPad (among many amazing attributes) is by [...]



The Wall Street Journal has, yet again, dipped its surprisingly-aware toes into the perplexing pool of post-dating romance.  BRA-VO, we here at WTF?! say!  A little late is infinitely better than never – especially compared to the newspaper’s rivals, who are clinging to the traditional concept of “The Date” as if it’s actually going to [...]



As the J&R marketing director, it’s my duty to live all aspects of WTF?! philosophy.  So, in the name of all things WTF?!, I’ve developed an expansive international gaggle, been on non-dates with half of New York City and indulged in every area of techno-romance known to man.  But, Post-Daters, I recently realized that I’m [...]



Stay tuned for more… Email us at wtf@wtfisupwithmylovelife.com if you have stories to share on the Guest Blog! Keep ‘em coming! Jess & Becky on Online Dating (on the WTF?! Blog): WTF Is Up With My Online Dating Life?! by Jess Ok, Cupid. Show Me What You’ve Got! by Becky OKCupid Can o’ Worms o’ Moms by Becky [...]



Jess and Becky applaud Stephanie Coontz’ New York Times Op-Ed in which she proves that we will have better relationships and better sex the more educated and successful we are. Word.



Straight from the fresh powder of Aspen, WTF?! brings you the latest installment of videos from the WTF?! Tour – WTF?! X-Games! WTF?! snowboarded, hung out with skiers, got incredibly hung over due to the high altitude (word to the wise: don’t drink an entire bottle of wine to yourself when 14258 feet above sea level), [...]



Teachers in Buffalo, NY can get UNLIMITED PLASTIC SURGERY for free, at taxpayer expense. Nope, not a joke…



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