My Body, My Worry
When I hear people say they worry about getting fat, I don’t just relate—I get jealous.
Porn: Kinda Gay, a Little Confusing, and Carefully Navigated
My relationship with porn is like my relationship with Charlie: kinda gay, a little confusing, carefully navigated, and sometimes even a little sweet. Allow me to explain.
The Top 10 Emotions in My Post-Dating Love Life
A fairy tale it is not. In truth, it is pretty f*cked up. And by it, I mean my love life. Your love life. Our (collective) love lives in the post-dating world.
Marriage, Divorce, Domestic Partnership, LGBT, Sexy Times: A Picture of the Millenial Love Landscape
The love landscape of our generation is diverse and fluid. It is gay. It is straight. And its power lies is the freedom to be whatever it needs to be.
Relationship Rants: How My Boyfriend (Doesn’t) Fold Things
Nobody is perfect, even that beloved someone. How to reconcile with the things he does that drives you nuts.
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Is Monogamy Natural?
When Coolidge was president, he and his wife were being shown around a chicken farm. Noticing the chickens copulating furiously, the first lady asked how many times the chickens did [...]

How The Hot Sex Prospect Turned Into My Serious Boyfriend: A Tale of Lust, Love, and Utter Confusion
A few years ago, I was in an imperfect but mostly content relationship. My then boyfriend of two and a half years (we’ll call him The Ex) was my first [...]

Ask Jess #4! Should I Feel Guilty About Talking To Another Guy?
This girl is talking to another guy… Is that cheating? Should she feel guilty? We revisit a favorite Ask Jess. Next time you’re trying to read some guy’s mind or [...]

WTF Is Up With These Links?!
From the streets of New York City to the mountains of Colorado and the churches (and gay clubs) of Utah, we bring you this week’s WTF-worthy news… *Having trouble living [...]

WTF?! Classic: Is Infidelity Inevitable?
The internet is abuzz today with coverage of GQ’s exclusive interview with Rielle Hunter, the woman best known as ex-presidential candidate John Edwards’s mistress and baby mama. Apart from the [...]

The Difference Between Cheating, Cheating, and Cheating
Well hello everyone! Like Victor Kiriakis, I’ve returned to wreak havoc on your love lives like no one else can. I’m here to explain to you the nuances of dating [...]

WTF?! Classic: Smart Guys Won’t Cheat On You! (So Says Science)
As if smart guys weren’t hot enough. According to a study that was recently featured on CNN.com (thanks to the always colorful Strongarm Gibbs for the heads up!), people with [...]
WTF?! of the Weekend: We Kick Off Cheat Week with Tales from the El
Hi, WTF?! Readers! Becky here with our WTF?! Moment of the Weekend. On Saturday, I was on the New York Metro-North train talking to a guy who told me this [...]

WTF Are Our New Years Resolutions for 2011????
Let’s be honest: New Year’s resolutions are such a mindf**k. Whether you’re trying to save the world one non-date at a time like Jess, or scheming to replenish your gaggle [...]
Casual Texter… or MASS Texter?
Loren here! Casual texting has long baffled me. I just don’t understand it. Why have these long, drawn out text conversations when you can communicate the exact same thing with [...]

The Dangers of Casual Texting
WTF is up with the casual texting, guys? If there’s a chance you want to eff me, you might want to pick up the phone, ask me out, and take [...]
WTF Is Up With These Links?!
The post-dating world never sleeps! Here’s your weekly dose of ambiguity, confusion and perplexing excitement via the latest WTF?!-worthy news… *Tired of getting hit up for casual sex on OkCupid? [...]














